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200+
Books Sold Internationally
M.A.
Community Psychology and Social Change, Penn State, B.S in Social Studies, Millersville University
Author
Educator and Certified Life Coach (CLCI)
15+
Years in Education & Coaching
Does Any of This Sound Familiar?
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You feel embarrassed speaking English in meetings or social situations
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You don’t understand why Americans act the way they do — at work, in stores, with neighbors
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You feel invisible, lonely, or like you’re falling behind
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You’re working twice as hard as everyone else just to feel “normal”
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You’ve tried Googling answers about American life and gotten nowhere
If any of this resonates — you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Meet Selma Toporan — Your Coach, Guide, and Fellow Immigrant
I came to the United States at age 14 with big dreams and no roadmap. I know exactly how overwhelming, isolating, and confusing the adjustment can be.
That’s why I built Aspire USA Coaching — to give you the guidance I wish I’d had. I hold a Master’s degree in Community Psychology from Penn State, I’m a certified life coach, and I’m the author of Adjusting to Life in the USA, a book that has already helped hundreds of newcomers feel seen, prepared, and confident.
I’ve helped clients navigate domestic violence situations, rebuild their confidence after career setbacks, lose weight through mindful eating, and build real friendships in a country where they once felt invisible.
My coaching is compassionate, practical, and tailored to you — not a cookie-cutter program.
Three Ways to Work With Me
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1 on 1 Coaching
Personalized sessions designed around YOUR goals, language, and cultural challenges.
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Online Courses
Self-paced video courses on culture, English, pronunciation, and emotional resilience. Starting at $19.
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Book & Resources
Adjusting to Life in the USA — 33 chapters, free ESL lessons, and real immigrant stories.
How I Help You Thrive in the U.S.
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Personalized coaching for immigrants and newcomers
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Support with English communication and cultural confidence
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Guidance for personal growth, career readiness, and self-esteem
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A safe, supportive space where you feel seen and understood
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Providing high-quality, self-paced learning opportunities, including English courses for newcomers; an American Pronunciation course; American culture courses (beginner and advanced); and a mental resilience course designed to support individuals adjusting to life in a new country.
Find Out If Coaching or My Services Are Right for You!
My Coaching Specializations
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Adjusting to Life in the USA
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Conversational English & Communication Skills
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Cultural Integration & Confidence
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Personal and Professional Development
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Personalized Learning & Coaching Support
Book a Free Call.
“Selma really helped her client, and she got an interpreter for her to assist during coaching sessions. She was able to communicate with the client and help her get out of a domestic violence situation. The client is doing really well now."
- H.T.N
“Wonderful. The workshop on life balance was eye opening. It helped me understand what I needed to work on to feel more fulfilled at work and at home."
- Emily
"As an English language development teacher of children and adults I find "Adjusting to Life in the USA" an invaluable resource for both immigrants learning about the United States and English teachers of adults. The careful and comprehensive compilation of valuable information paired alongside the raw and personal experiences of the author make the reader feel seen and understood during the tumultuous time of resettlement within the U.S. Additionally, English teachers of adults will find use this book as their go-to resource for assisting their students as they adjust to life in American culture. Readers are encouraged to proactively learn about this new culture, while finding meaningful ways to remain true to their native identity. I highly recommend This thoughtful compilation of stories and resources to anyone with a desire to know more about American life, students and teachers alike."
Mrs. Mauree Jolda English Language Development Teacher
"I wish I had Selma's book when I first arrived in the U.S.—it would have eased my loneliness and answered so many questions I didn’t know how to ask. It covers countless topics that a newcomer to the US might have come up, offering guidance on how to navigate them. My husband also found it incredibly helpful in understanding me—my ways of communicating and doing things. I especially loved how the author emphasizes adapting to a new country while staying true to your roots. A must-read for anyone starting their journey here."
- Sage
"I have worked with Selma as my life coach during a time in my life that I had gained immense weight. Eating had become my new therapy. My self esteem and confidence were gone. Selma did not give up on me. We met for a series of 6 sessions through which I was taught to take back control of my life. I did not do any diating. Selma introduced me to minful eating. I started journaling what I ate, when I ate my food, and any emotions and feeling when eating food. I was able to identify negative emotions that led me to bad eating habits. With patience and commitmet I was able to move from BMI of 29 which is overwight to a healthy BMI of 24.5. My biggest lesson was learning to identify emotions, being kind to myself and taking responsibility.
I would proudly recommend Selma to anyone feeling a sense of loss of self control. Selma is a great communicator and knows how to ask the right questions that prompt you to think."
- Ann